1. Ask if you have questions or need clarification on anything in relation to your child's treatment
It is important that you understand what your child is being examined for, what the doctors have found out so far, and which treatment the child is going to have. So please ask if there is anything you do not understand.
2. Tell us about the child’s medication and eating habits
It is a good idea to tell the personnel which kind of medicine the child takes – also alternative/herbal treatment, dietary supplements, natural products, and whether you are following any dietary guidelines. You should also let us know if the child is allergic to some kinds of medication, foods, or other things.
3. Write down along the way
If possible, it is a good idea to keep a log book of what you experience while the child is ill. The log book may help you to remember what you experience and what you want to ask to the personnel. The log book may also be a help for you afterwards in order to process the experience.
4. More ears hear better
It is a good idea to have two adults present when going to interviews concerning examinations and results. It is an advantage that more people have heard what the doctor has said, so all nuances are included and you are more people to remember and understand what has been said.
5. Make agreements
Make agreements with the personnel regarding your mutual collaboration. How the child should be informed and prepared for examinations and treatment, and whether you or the personnel should give the prescribed medicine to the child.
6. Confirm your child
Check the name and personal identification number of your child together with the personnel every time the child is examined, treated, or receives medicine.
7. Hear about the surgery
If the child is going to have surgery, it is a good idea to talk with the surgeon about what is going to happen. Sometimes, just before the surgery, the surgeon will make a mark with a magic marker pen on the child’s body where the surgery is going to be performed.
8. Tell the personnel if something is painful
It is important that the personnel knows the child’s symptoms of pain. Also if they occur in other places of the body than where the child is diseased.
9. When going home
It is a good idea to ask how the treatment should continue when you are going home – what to pay attention to at home, and which possibilities you have in case of questions.
10. Know the child’s medication
You should know the name of your child’s medication, how it works, how long it lasts, how the child should take it, and whether it has any side effects. Get a list of all the different kinds of medication for the child. Ask if there are any particular types of foods or drinks that can affect the treatment. Possibly write down the answers.